Good Song...

Every now and then I listen to a good song that I belive it is worth to be remember... So here it is, When I Look To The Sky by Train...
When it rains it pours and opens doors
And floods the floors we thought would always keep us safe and dry
And in the midst of sailing ships we sink our lips into the ones we love
That have to say goodbye
And as I float along this ocean
I can feel you like a notion that won't seem to let me go
Cause when I look to the sky something tells me you're here with me
And you make everything alright
And when I feel like I'm lost something tells me you're here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here
And every word I didn't say caught up in some busy day
And every dance on the kitchen floor we didn't have before
And every sunset that we'll miss I'll wrap them all up in a kiss
Pick you up in all of this when I sail away
And while I float along this ocean
I can feel you like a notion that I hope will never leave
Cause when I look to the sky something tells me you're here with me
And you make everything alright
And when I feel like I'm lost something tells me you're here with me
And I can always find my way
Whether I am up or down or in or out or just plane overhead
Instead it just feels like it's impossible to fly
But with you I can spread my wings
to see me over everything that life may send me
When I am hoping it won't pass me by
And when I feel like there is no one that will ever know me
there you are to show me
When I look to the sky something tells me you're here with me
And you make everything alright
And when I feel like I'm lost something tells me you're here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here
When I look to the sky something tells me you're here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here
And when I feel like I'm lost something tells me you're here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here

It goes on...

I used to think that if I had grown distant from a friend that it was all my fault; I had been working too much, just hanging out with my boyfriend and that I was neglecting my friends. Now I see that you can be distant and still be friends; everybody's got a life and we can't expect to live the same life as when we were in high school but there are some cases that one of the parties just give up.
I guess I'm good for advices and to listen to friends crying because of their shitty boyfriends when nobody else is paying attention, but that's pretty much it, other than that I'm just there, sitting in the corner...
I know it may sound stupid but I thought I would be one of those people who has friends forever and now that I see real life is not really like that, I feel so naive. When the person doesn't have time for you anymore, when you call and they're not there (ever), when eventually you find out that many things happen that you are not aware of (specially because it wasn't you they came to talk to about it), when it's your birthday and instead of being there with you to celebrate, they stay a couple of minutes only (you know, the social thing), when they lie/ommit things who thw hell knows why, the worst thing is, the person doesn't care. Or maybe that's how life is supposed to be and YOU are the one who's overreacting.
I'm not going to stop talking to people or being their friends, I now know that there's no such thing as a best friend forever, acquaintance maybe, but people do drift away from us and that's life. At least I know not to worry anymore.